Building Trust With Your Chameleon

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There are so many reasons why it is important for a Chameleon to trust their Keeper. As Humans we want them to love us the way we love them. But realistically this is not how your Chameleon is going to think of you. You are simply their Keeper. You are the provider of their needs. While I am a believer that some Chameleons develop more trust in their owner than others do, they are by no means a dog or a cat. Not something you are going to sit and cuddle up with while you watch TV.

But why do we need to gain their trust? Here are just a few of many reasons why it is important.

  • Cleaning their enclosure
  • Vet check ups
  • Visually look over the chameleon
  • Taking them from indoor enclosure to outdoor enclosure
All of these things can be very stressful on a Chameleon as well as the Keeper. If there is not a level of trust in the relationship it can feel impossible. We know that stress is never something we want for a Chameleon.

I read I ton when I first got Beman. Constantly reading through threads finding as much info as possible. A crash course in Husbandry.
Beman was an impulse buy from Petco. I was recommended all the wrong stuff including the dreaded Chameleon Kit. Improper lighting and all.
By the 3rd day of having him I finally found this forum. I became the ultimate lurker for months and I started correcting everything as fast as I could. I replaced fake plants with real ones and ordered new lighting from Light Your Reptiles within the first week. I started looking at enclosure options from Dragon Strand. This Forum saved my chameleons life and taught me how to be a good keeper.

My reason for posting this blog is to give back to others the way this forum gave to me. I never found a video showing how to build trust. I read many different posts on it. So this was how I interpreted what I read and how I went about my mission to build trust.

  1. Get a comfortable chair ready.
  2. Put it next to the door of your Chameleon's enclosure.
  3. Make sure your not sitting higher then your Chameleon so they feel safe.
  4. Use a feeder that they adore that won't jump off your hand.
  5. Don't make direct eye contact with your Chameleon.
  6. Don't plan on moving for at least 30 minutes.

I used waxworms. So I only did this exercise with him once each day. So only 1 waxworm each day. Please Note: You do not want to feed these as a staple feeder because they are high in fat. So treats only and this was the only time he got them during this process. Chameleons can't hear so go ahead and have a long conversation with them. This is what I did to pass the time and keep myself calm and steady.

Starting out you are only putting a feeder in the palm of your hand and offering it. I kept my hand on his level so he could see it and so it was not intruding in his enclosure but so that he could get to within 5 inches of it. This may take awhile so be prepared to hold your elbow with your other hand to keep it still.
I was basically a food dish. It took Beman 4 days before he took the first feeder from my hand. He was on a vine about 6 inches away.
Over the course of 2 weeks he got closer and closer to my hand.

I was still a food dish. I didn't move and I didn't make direct eye contact.

By the second week he was getting closer to my hand. The period of time that I sat there got shorter as the days passed.

After two weeks he started trusting to come up onto my hand. He would sit a little longer each time before getting off. I did this by presenting my hand palm up just as he was used to seeing it and with my other hand I had the feeder in my palm farther up my arm. So he would have to at first just put his front feet onto my hand to get to the feeder in the other hand. Remember this is at their pace not yours. So your not rushing them. Your Building Trust.

This video was done about 2 weeks and 4 days into the process. Beman is four and half months old in this video.



It took another 2-3 weeks for me to be able to slowly pull my hand out with him on it. By this time he was no longer fearful because I always reinforced with his special treat.
I would sit in the chair with him on my hand and slowly pull my hand closer to me. Watching his behavior for any indication that he was not ok with it. If he started backing up my hand went back toward the cage. His pace not mine.

It took approximately 6 weeks of working with him everyday at his pace only. By this point he let me remove him to clean his cage, take him to the vet for a check up, and would sit with me for about 15 minutes each day. Always reinforcing with his special treat.

Now Beman is almost 10 months old. He is a friendly boy that loves going outside in the sun each day that the weather allows. He comes out of his enclosure on his play area happily for me to fully clean his cage each weekend.

This is how I get him out of the enclosure now. No treat needed just my hand.




I do not know if it is just a fluke that I happened to get a Veiled Chameleon with a good temperament or if I happened to hit upon a way to build trust that works. But my hopes in sharing this is that others may find a way to build trust with their Chameleon, to be able to do the important things as a Keeper and a lover of these beautiful creatures.

UPDATE: Beman is now 14-15 months old... Even though he was always a sweet boy he is now displaying typical mature Male Veiled aggressive behavior. While he still will let me remove him from the cage. He is very cage aggressive. He has not bitten me in the last 2 months since showing his new attitude but I would not put it past him to try should I not pay close enough attention.

UPDATE 3-9-21: Beman will be 3 years old in June. He has moved passed his cage aggression. This took a few months. He still shows me that he is the boss but has never bitten me. He does not come out without seeing a treat. But I feel like because I worked so much with treats when he was young that he still fully understands it. I am able to take him outside to his large enclosure during warmer weather, clean his cage, take him to the vet, and do weight checks.

UPDATE: 2/19/24: Beman will be 6 years old in June. It is really hard to believe how fast time has gone by. He still recognizes my hand mean food so when I need to get him out I can. He has gone through many mood changes the last 3 years. As he has gotten older he is less concerned with me and more concerned with being in his home. He comes out pretty rarely now as he has gotten older. He still comes to the front of the cage to cup feed. This is the only way I have fed him the last few years to maintain our trust and bond. I hold a short cup for him to target into. All in all I feel like while this method of trust building may not work for all chameleons, but for some with patience it can be a wonderful addition to your daily routine so that you have a bond with your chameleon that will last its entire life.




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I have a Flap Necked chameleon that I found at my gate. (They are indigenous here) sadly we seldom see them any more as between the cats and the electric fences, their numbers are dwindling. On close examination I realised he couldn't see a thing. His eyes wouldn't open. A result of shedding or a toxin or both. So when I picked him off the road he hissed madly. Now, 3 weeks later and much coaxing, I am able to feed him by hand 3 times a day and when he feels my fingers he immediately climbs on and will happily stay there all day long given the chance. He loves having his head scratched and rubs his eyes on my thumb. Well, 4 days ago 1 eye opened , but I'm not convinced he has sight, as he has to feel for any foot hold and will still try to walk, even if there is nothing there. its as if he hates. being put down, and fights to stay on my hand. I have just spent 5 days in the wild, driving for 7 hours a day. he lived on the Dashboard on a towel in the sun where he slept most of the trip, only opening his mouth for water & crickets. We live in hope that he gets his sight back & can hunt once more, but in the mean time he is living the life.
Your situation is a bit different then most the other keepers here. But I do urge you to be cautious with taking him everywhere. In the sun under glass he is not getting any UVB along with the temps being much hotter. Eyes being closed can be quite a few things. If you have not posted a help thread this may be a good place for you to start. Flap Necked chams are not in my area of expertise but there are others that are familiar with them. Good luck.
 
Your situation is a bit different then most the other keepers here. But I do urge you to be cautious with taking him everywhere. In the sun under glass he is not getting any UVB along with the temps being much hotter. Eyes being closed can be quite a few things. If you have not posted a help thread this may be a good place for you to start. Flap Necked chams are not in my area of expertise but there are others that are familiar with them. Good luck.
Thanks for the reply.
Yesterday after posting my comment the last bit of gunk came off his other eye & he now has 2 open eyes. The balls seem to be moving exactly as they should & I will now find a specialist to test his sight. Sadly I had to take him with me on my trip as Cham sitters are pretty scarce, particularly those who will spend an hour a day making sure he is eating and drinking. But I have an outdoor open cage for him to bask in the sun during the day to keep his UVB absorption up to speed.
I hate seeing anything in a cage so im dead set on reintroducing him to his habitat. Will miss the little fella that's for sure. Having been around Chameleons in the bush since I grew up in Zimbabwe I have never fully appreciated the miracle engineering they were blessed with. They really are exceptional.
 
Thanks for the reply.
Yesterday after posting my comment the last bit of gunk came off his other eye & he now has 2 open eyes. The balls seem to be moving exactly as they should & I will now find a specialist to test his sight. Sadly I had to take him with me on my trip as Cham sitters are pretty scarce, particularly those who will spend an hour a day making sure he is eating and drinking. But I have an outdoor open cage for him to bask in the sun during the day to keep his UVB absorption up to speed.
I hate seeing anything in a cage so im dead set on reintroducing him to his habitat. Will miss the little fella that's for sure. Having been around Chameleons in the bush since I grew up in Zimbabwe I have never fully appreciated the miracle engineering they were blessed with. They really are exceptional.
Well I wish you much luck with the little one. I really hope you are able to rehab him and release him back into his environment. :)
 
@Beman We are making progress over here. If I stay lower than my cham, I’ve been able to coax him onto my hand with a treat. This quickly turns into a “Oh $!&@...what have I done” reaction from him after he chomps down his super. He’ll start treadmilling from one hand to the next in an attempt to escape. Should I just put him back into his enclosure at this point and try again tomorrow? Should I hold off giving the treat until he has relaxed on my hand and I put him back as reinforcement? Give him another treat after he chomps the first one and he’s back in his enclosure? What do you suggest as next steps once he’s trusting enough to get onto my hand for a treat? Thanks!
 
@Beman We are making progress over here. If I stay lower than my cham, I’ve been able to coax him onto my hand with a treat. This quickly turns into a “Oh $!&@...what have I done” reaction from him after he chomps down his super. He’ll start treadmilling from one hand to the next in an attempt to escape. Should I just put him back into his enclosure at this point and try again tomorrow? Should I hold off giving the treat until he has relaxed on my hand and I put him back as reinforcement? Give him another treat after he chomps the first one and he’s back in his enclosure? What do you suggest as next steps once he’s trusting enough to get onto my hand for a treat? Thanks!
Congrats! So I never removed my hand until Beman was actually calm sitting on it. THen I would slowly remove it until he got nervous. If he got nervous I would let him back in the cage. Each time he got more comfortable to where I could totally take my hand out with him. When they treadmill it gets sketchy so you have to be careful because they will jump to get away.

So I would just get him comfy with coming out on your hand. Give him the initial treat then if he sits there a little give him another. It is all about the food association with you. Keep reinforcing it with food.

But your doing great. Your at the first major step getting him to climb on to take the treat. Now just take your time getting him to understand that sitting there is ok. Do it each day with him. He will figure it out and learn that your hand means food. Always give the treat so he learns the connection.
 
Congrats! So I never removed my hand until Beman was actually calm sitting on it. THen I would slowly remove it until he got nervous. If he got nervous I would let him back in the cage. Each time he got more comfortable to where I could totally take my hand out with him. When they treadmill it gets sketchy so you have to be careful because they will jump to get away.

So I would just get him comfy with coming out on your hand. Give him the initial treat then if he sits there a little give him another. It is all about the food association with you. Keep reinforcing it with food.

But your doing great. Your at the first major step getting him to climb on to take the treat. Now just take your time getting him to understand that sitting there is ok. Do it each day with him. He will figure it out and learn that your hand means food. Always give the treat so he learns the connection.
Sounds good. Thank you for your help!
 
I would love to start working on building trust with my little squirt soon, but I don't know at what age he'll be big enough to eat worms? When I got him they told me he was 3 months but he is way smaller so I'm assuming 2 months or a little over. Is 4 months a good time to start with worms?
 
I would love to start working on building trust with my little squirt soon, but I don't know at what age he'll be big enough to eat worms? When I got him they told me he was 3 months but he is way smaller so I'm assuming 2 months or a little over. Is 4 months a good time to start with worms?
Sorry I missed your post to my blog. Totally did not get an alert for it. I would use small wax worms... They are like cake. Use 1-2 a day and only holding them so he knows that you have special treats in your hands. These are a treat feeder so not something you want to use as a regular feeder when he has matured due to them being very fatty. :)
 
I think it’s great that you shared this! My boy He-Man is super friendly and afraid of nothing now days lol. I started the same way, sometimes standing for hours with food in my hands. After 2 months I couldn’t keep him off me lol. When cleaning his habitat he will sneak onto my head when I’m not looking, or I will get woke up by him climbing on me in my sleep lol. His free range is next to my bed. He gets excited going out in public, and meeting new people, and occasionally climbing on some lucky onlookers. He is so trusting that he let me introduce him to my dogs, and he gets jealous when I hold another animal no matter what it is, so much that as soon as I put it down he rushes onto me as fast as he can as if to say “this is my human tree, not yours “ lol. My girl trusts me but is territorial. They haven’t ever but me though thankfully. I did want to add something though to this that I hope is helpful to people. One, I have found that the color I’m wearing when approaching my chameleons makes a huge difference!! If I’m wearing black or red they will threaten me. However if I’m wearing light green or soft pastel colors, yellow orange or light grey or even white, they respond to my approach completely differently. Also tons of people think they can’t hear because they don’t have an outer ear, however they have an inner ear, and they hear 😊 great news right. If you talk to your chameleon in say the voice you use to talk to a baby, it will instantly grab their attention. You can test this theory by holding your chameleon and standing in your hallway, just at the corner where you can’t see around the corner. Have another person stand around the corner and baby talk at a normal conversation volume, and watch your chameleon react! It’s so cool realizing they can actually hear. My boy has a nickname I call him, it’s Buddy. Anyways every morning I wake up and he is already watching me, so I say good morning Buddy! So when I come in my room and can’t see him I will say where are you Buddy?? And he will pop his head up and look right at me as soon as I say it. If I say anything else he ignores it but when I ask that question I swear he knows it’s his nickname. He also responds really well to kissy noises of all things lol. If I make ‘‘em at him when he is sitting on my shoulder he will even lean against my cheek with his entire body. Strange I know lol. Anyway I thought it was strange that I was noticing these things, so I researched chameleon anatomy, and low and behold found that they have inner ears. So I thought I would share this tidbit of info with you.
 
I’m just now seeing this myself. I so appreciate the work you put into this; I’ve bookmarked it and will be referring to it frequently when my baby cham arrives. :)

Thank you so much for sharing. Beman is adorable, by the way!
 
I hope to try this out with my girl once her new cage is all set up! I do have questions though. So this summer my family will be traveling a bit throughout June and into July. (we have some family and friends to take care of the stationary pets at home). Should I even try to gain her trust now as soon as her new cage arrives? Or should I wait till later in the summer, in hopes to not lose progress?
 
I hope to try this out with my girl once her new cage is all set up! I do have questions though. So this summer my family will be traveling a bit throughout June and into July. (we have some family and friends to take care of the stationary pets at home). Should I even try to gain her trust now as soon as her new cage arrives? Or should I wait till later in the summer, in hopes to not lose progress?
This is entirely up to you. Right now its more concentrating on her getting healthy. Once she is thriving then building trust. You do not want to add stress to an already struggling chameleon. You have a bit of time until you end up leaving, once she is healthy you could start trying to work with her on hand feeding.
 
This is entirely up to you. Right now its more concentrating on her getting healthy. Once she is thriving then building trust. You do not want to add stress to an already struggling chameleon. You have a bit of time until you end up leaving, once she is healthy you could start trying to work with her on hand feeding.
I just started today like not even 10
Minutes ago and she’s already taken a treat from my hand and moved back up towards her basking spot :D
I snuck a glance at her as she finished eating and she have the nervous colors but it’s crazy she already came and took the waxworm
 
I just started today like not even 10
Minutes ago and she’s already taken a treat from my hand and moved back up towards her basking spot :D
I snuck a glance at her as she finished eating and she have the nervous colors but it’s crazy she already came and took the waxworm
So every day work with her like this. It will be really good for both of you and you will be able to eventually coax her out onto your hand.
 
Beman is beautiful thank you so much for sharing. I can't wait to do this when I get my boy.
 
Thank you for taking the time to write all of this out. My quickly growing panther, Ickis, is interesting. On the first day I had him, he ate right out of my hand, but in the weeks and couple months since I've gotten him he's gotten increasingly shy and defensive, often rotating away on the branch if I approach the cage too closely, and definitely if I open the door or stick a hand in. He's even gotten shy about eating while he can see me as he's aged up, and I'm wondering if this is an adolescant, "agressive male" or territorial thing over his cage.

Luckily for me he seems otherwise very healthy and I'm just allowing him to have his space without pushing the issue. I'm hopeful to get him eating out of my hand again at one point and even ONTO my hand just so I can effectively take him out for weighing and vet visits.
 
Thank you for taking the time to write all of this out. My quickly growing panther, Ickis, is interesting. On the first day I had him, he ate right out of my hand, but in the weeks and couple months since I've gotten him he's gotten increasingly shy and defensive, often rotating away on the branch if I approach the cage too closely, and definitely if I open the door or stick a hand in. He's even gotten shy about eating while he can see me as he's aged up, and I'm wondering if this is an adolescant, "agressive male" or territorial thing over his cage.

Luckily for me he seems otherwise very healthy and I'm just allowing him to have his space without pushing the issue. I'm hopeful to get him eating out of my hand again at one point and even ONTO my hand just so I can effectively take him out for weighing and vet visits.
I think it helped because my cages were always in my office. So I was being watched constantly lol. They are all very different with what they are receptive to. Hopefully your boy warms up. Maybe try some high value feeders. They all seem to have one that is their jam. For Beman it was waxworms for another male I had it was silkworms.
 
My cham is a foodie and will try to eat ANYTHING and EVERYTHING that moves. I always put my dripper on and he shoots out his tongue as if it’s a bug and try’s to eat it. When I read your blog I realized if he likes food maybe this could work for him. And it did! He practically ran onto my hand ate the bug and then just kept moving! I was so happy and now he does it all the time. This blog was really helpful that you so much @Beman for writing this.
 

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