Have you tried Misting with a spray bottle, my Cham Clyde had the same problem when he first came to me and I used a spray bottle (most likely won’t like it if you’ve never used one) the results where fine he got back to his old self in a week
So if it was a male on the back legs there would be a spur poking out of the heel, from the pics you used I would deff say that you have yourself a female