Olimpia
Biologist & Ecologist
Do you take this to mean that you can come in whenever you want, even if the homeowner tells you not to, especially when they're not home?
Apparently a now ex-friend thinks that is exactly what this means. I'm sorry to vent personal issues on here but I'm up to my eyeballs in frustration. A friend of mine met an ex boyfriend of mine from TWO YEARS ago who is holding a still grudge on Saturday, spent all Sunday night chatting with him online (apparently learning what a horrible person I am), and then spent Monday night sending me malicious emails (along with a complete stranger, who has also decided to pass judgment on my life based on what this guy has told them). Absolutely ridiculous.
So in the spirit of not playing along and dragging out this drama, because I simply don't care, I told her to forget about me and to come get her things from my apartment (she has a single shopping bag of clothes and a sound system I don't want to touch). She got her boyfriend to ban me and mine from the Starbucks where he works (immature, anyone?) and is refusing to get her things from my house without having a cop present. Which is fine, if she wants to waste an officer's time then whatever.
Yesterday I let her know when we will be home, and to please not come in after 6, because we will not be home. She has a key I gave to her for emergencies months ago, so she says that because of that, she can do whatever she wants. I ask her politely again, do NOT come in without us present. She went on this rampage about how she has a key and can do whatever she wants, we can kiss her arse. She would not have "a child tell me when and what I can do!" I proceed to tell her, NO, my apartment. She started to get aggressive and threatening so we had the locks changed 20 minutes later. Then she began threatening us by saying her cop friend would find an excuse to get either myself or my bf in trouble, even going as far as threatening to deport me (which is stupid because you can't deport a permanent resident lol).
I'm still waiting on her to get her stuff, unfortunately. I don't know what has made her jump so hard off the deep end, but wow, she is getting scary. Which is sad, because she has a 4 year old that should be getting her undivided attention, not me and this vendetta.
Apparently a now ex-friend thinks that is exactly what this means. I'm sorry to vent personal issues on here but I'm up to my eyeballs in frustration. A friend of mine met an ex boyfriend of mine from TWO YEARS ago who is holding a still grudge on Saturday, spent all Sunday night chatting with him online (apparently learning what a horrible person I am), and then spent Monday night sending me malicious emails (along with a complete stranger, who has also decided to pass judgment on my life based on what this guy has told them). Absolutely ridiculous.
So in the spirit of not playing along and dragging out this drama, because I simply don't care, I told her to forget about me and to come get her things from my apartment (she has a single shopping bag of clothes and a sound system I don't want to touch). She got her boyfriend to ban me and mine from the Starbucks where he works (immature, anyone?) and is refusing to get her things from my house without having a cop present. Which is fine, if she wants to waste an officer's time then whatever.
Yesterday I let her know when we will be home, and to please not come in after 6, because we will not be home. She has a key I gave to her for emergencies months ago, so she says that because of that, she can do whatever she wants. I ask her politely again, do NOT come in without us present. She went on this rampage about how she has a key and can do whatever she wants, we can kiss her arse. She would not have "a child tell me when and what I can do!" I proceed to tell her, NO, my apartment. She started to get aggressive and threatening so we had the locks changed 20 minutes later. Then she began threatening us by saying her cop friend would find an excuse to get either myself or my bf in trouble, even going as far as threatening to deport me (which is stupid because you can't deport a permanent resident lol).
I'm still waiting on her to get her stuff, unfortunately. I don't know what has made her jump so hard off the deep end, but wow, she is getting scary. Which is sad, because she has a 4 year old that should be getting her undivided attention, not me and this vendetta.