I have had my male veiled for about 2 months. From the start he had let me handle him. Only time he does not like it is if he has just eaten, or it's getting close for him to go to bed. He doesn't change to a dark color at all (stress) so I got a good one. Try hand feeding him and that will get...
I would just watch him/her. If it is staying nice and green eyes wide open, eating and drinking then things will be okay. Keep us posted. By no means am I an expert, but I have done my reading, and asked my questions. Good Luck with your new friend!