Welcome! I am so glad you came here when you did. With the knowledge of all the chameleon owners here you will be able to stop what is happening and fix things right up. Chameleons are climbers hence the splayed hands. Being up high makes them feel the safest so you need to create a jungle gym. The first thing my veiled does when he wakes up is go to his heat perch. Once he is heated up he is off hunting and doing what the males do, a perimeter search hoping to find a female. Now real plants will help keep the humidity level up and also water stays on real plants instead of just rolling off of plastic. So he can drink the water off of the real plants. You can buy Flukers bend-a-branch on Amazon it’s inexpensive and is made to last. I suggest the medium and heavy thickness for his age. Zip ties can help you anchor things in place. Now Beman is the best husbandry guide you can find so I suggest you let her go through everything with you. Also chameleon academy has great setup advice and pics to get ideas from. You boys casque is bent a bit but if the cause can be stopped now, he be should be fine. All chams are unique. It looks like your boy has a large casque and he isn’t even full grown. If it stays bent, it just gives him character. So glad you knew something wasn’t right and found your way here. Now you can fix things. It’s not your fault, there is just too much bad info out there which is why I am so thankful for this forum! Best of luck to you both.