I have been paying attention! I am reading all comments! The developments are very sad and painful to watch and endure!
I have blocked my children's access to the forums for now (possibly till they are adults) They should not have to see all of this! They have been taking care of the father and mother of Bahari! They had helped me dig up Bahari's egg when it was laid! They were excited when he hatched and were in awe of his color and character as both developed in to magnificence! They were so sad when I decided to sell him! They wanted to keep him as a breeder! Despite for how many chameleons we have, we do not use automatic misting! Everyone in the family helps taking care of the babies! Each and every baby is raised with love and the utmost care! My children should be spared the pain of this thread!
So many, many chameleons have left our loving care (driven by research, with the health and longevity of each chameleon as our focus) through the years without incidence and have transitioned very well into their new homes!
People who praise you today will stick a crown of thorns on your head tomorrow! When the time is ready we will discuss our perspective and experience in detail! To those of you who are so eager to cast stones please remember there are always at least two sides to a story....
Matt,
I'm not sure where this is coming from, but this is not like you. First, I don't have kids, but I will comment on you blocking them. Life is not always easy, and you can't protect your kids from pain forever. They need to understand the dangers of what can happen to fully understand what it means to take on this kind of responsibility. It is how you discuss things with them when exposed that makes you and @Teal Beauty the great parents you are (I have already commented previously on this!) They should not have to be blocked from something they obviously have a passion for, but I understand wanting to protect them.
You have a very long and proven record of breeding and selling healthy and beautiful chameleons. This thread is not questioning you but the very nature of the topic does bring some unspoken issues into the forefront and that makes it a sensitive subject. Many here are trying to help Becca through this with the best advice they know. Part of this is trying to support her that she did not do anything wrong and this is not her fault, but she is strong enough to deal with this and get through it with success.
I am not a vet, but in my opinion...
THERE IS NO WAY THAT THE ANIMAL COULD HAVE DEVELOPED THAT PARASITE LOAD IN JUST A FEW DAYS SINCE BEING IN BECCA'S CARE...
I hope that is clear to everyone that is reading this.
@Matt Vanilla Gorilla , I am not blaming you for anything, but I would be scared to death right now if I were in your position. Is this isolated to one animal? Please be very vigilant with your entire collection. For everyone else reading this, please do not bring Matt into this discussion. Becca is going through enough already and did not want to even bring this out into the public view to avoid any confrontation or drama. (Just read her first post!) She did not want to soil the image of a very respected member of the Forums. She cared enough even while going through this ordeal. She just needed help.
Thank you to all who have tried to offer suggestions and support. For those who post anything that could lead to argument or debate in this thread I promise I will deal with it quickly. Feel free to start another discussion if you need to, but do not involve Becca unless she decides to join on her own. Also, if you do, please remain respectful and do not violate any site rules. Matt, please do not take my words here as an attack on you. They are not. I just didn't find that you needed to post what you did. You are a very respectable person and such a value to the Forums and I don't want this situation to tarnish that image.
Becca, I can offer my prayers for you and tell you that you are doing everything possible. I know you are strong enough to get through this, and I thank you for sharing your experience so others can learn from it. Please do not hesitate to reach out to me by PM if you need to.
Matt, if you want to reply please start a new thread and quote my message in it so I can discuss it with you. Or if you want, you can just send me a PM.
I will reopen this thread to comments, but again, I am watching...