i got my cham from petsmart in February and i have just recently tried to hold him but he doesnt run away, he stays put and opens his mouth, and flares his beard while swaying back in forth. i got him on a stick and out of the cage but i don't know if i should put him on me yet. the real question- should i do this a few more times for him to get a little more used to it, or just go for it.