Wow, I'm so shocked! The second pic looks like your going to strangle the poor little thing just to squeeze it's hemi-bulge, if your that concerned that you need a male so bad you should have waited a little longer. If your a beginner I apoligise but the question should have been raised earlier, Guess I'm banned then!
sorry if it looked like i was hurting it, i did not think it would hurt it as i wasnt holding it very thight, as i have said i am new to chams but i have been keeping snakes and lizards a few years now and as most of these are sexed from the coalca i thought chams would be the same i did not mean to harm them in any way, that was not my intention and i appologise. now i know that its the side profile i will never do this again.