Breathe and relax.... He may just be shocky right now. You did nothing wrong. Just let him calm down and only feed soft bodied feeders the next few days. It was a lot for him and she may have made his mouth sore depending on how she was grabbing his jaw and how hard she was pushing inside the mouth with the stick.Yes, I called and they are an exotic animal vet that does chameleons! I am very concerned now and just feel awful. Is it possible he could die from this? I really love him and I thought I was doing the right thing