try putig your entire cage in the shower this reduces stress. i have a mesh reptarium with branches that i use. this make it more like natural rain. at first leave her there for 10 minutes only...if she has relaxed leave here there for 20-30 or until she has moved as far away from the water as she can get. puting the cage in also makes it eaiser to get the water to hit just right. Also try baby food mixed half half with h2o use gerber first foods bananas...works great...