I would like to add that my girls are usually starving after laying eggs and eat everything offered. I feed them well for two to three days and then cut them back to their regular schedule of 2 to 3 bugs, depending on the size, 3 times a week. Once I had a female veiled that wouldn’t leave her...
I’ve never seen anything like that before. I wonder if you could have injured him squeezing him out of the egg. It’s best to let them get out of the egg on their own. It just takes time. Sometimes all day and even overnight.