Hi id like to discuss the leading up to the point of my relationship with my veiled today and how to fix this. So when i first got him he was about a month old and was an angel and i could pretty much hold him whenever i wanted (Not that i actually did) and that was that, i had obviously known that chameleons dont like being held or being in their business so i just limited it to a whenever i have friends or family over id hold him so basically like once or twice a month, and i started leaving a dish of food out for him instead of hand feeding him which i think was a big contributor to as you will learn my “untaming” of him, and that was that about a month ago i had family over and they were all looking at him and that was the first time he had ever hissed at me and my family obviously i just assumed he felt overwhelmed at this point he was about 2-3 months old, and then my friend who is a reptile keeper and had took care of my chameleon when he was about a month old thought he was still a chill guy about 2 weeks ago just went into the cage to get him like i would usually when i have company over and he hissed and i didnt expect that either and i was like what and i tried to get him and he hissed at me and that was that, but then my brother who does practically nothing with him goes to get him and he dosent even care hes just fine so i think ok maybe he just dosent like the way i go for him and i say let him climb onto my arm, and i approach him on my brothers arm and he hisses and i was pretty upset, the only experience my brother had had with him was holding him for about 2 hours on two seperate occasions when i was remodeling some enclosure aspects and that was all and i really got into how to tame them and ive been hand feeding again, leaving my hand in the enclosure for 15+ minutes to let him know im not a threat, trying to pick him up and he keeps hissing, and now he wont let my brother pick him up either so hes kinda isolated at this point its not that i necessarily want to hold him all the time its more of a what if theres an emergency leak or something in the enclosure and i have to get him out, i dont even know what i would do, today i made some good progress trying to pick him up he let me pet him which is a first if i even got within a foot radius hed prly hiss at me, i tried to make him enter my arm and he hissed i tried to slip him under a brach i poked in the enclosure and he went crazy, im considering soon getting gloves and just picking him up to know im not a threat, the thing is im certainly not going to stop because if i let this chameleon know that hissing will make me go away then he’ll just do it forever. Am i doing the right things? Should i do anything else? let me know thanks, if you read this long story.