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First of all you can't just yell my cham is skinny what do I do?! People can't help you with that, there is literally a sticky at the top of the page for you to copy and paste to fill out for us to see what you're doing wrong. You say female, does she have a laying bin? Uvb? Supplements? There are so many questions to be answered. So fill out that form and I guarantee someone will help you.
That all said it doesn't sound like your cham is well, a vet visit sounds like it might be necessary. A healthy cham doesn't starve itself. Also don't use tongs, they will get their tongues stuck to them and cause injury. I have witnessed this a few times personally.
Has she had a fecal lately. She might have parasites.
Well she's scared of you. Get 3 things for transporting her: a tree (fake, real, tall plant, whatever), stick, and a glove. She probably won't hurt you if she bites, but the glove will help you calm down. My panther, Solomon, is the same way right now. You need to free range her, I use a fake tree. If I want to get one out, I open their door, but a branch if my tree in where they can grab it, and leave the room. You can hear them go for it. That gives you 360 degrees of playing chase or coaxing, whatever you want to call it. The stick can even be a coat hanger, some people like to use that to get them because they may not fear it as much as your hand and you can slide it up under her belly and lift.
For now, don't hand feed worms. Solomon won't eat anything out of my hand. . .yet. . .hopefully. He just started eating in front of me. Cut the bottom out of a bottle (cheaper than buying a worm dish and it works better, IMHO). If you are worried about cutting her tongue, put tape around the top. Stick the little guys in there and leave. I still recommend you get wax worms because they're fatty and that is good for her if her ribs are showing.
One last piece of advice you may already be doing: keep her cage in the room in which you spend the most time. Chameleons are creepers and she will stare at you. The more she does, the less you will be a threat to her, so long as you don't eat her.
Your problem is more serious than having a tree if your cham is starving itself...
Jamest0o0 was right...there isn't enough information to figure out exactly what's going on...he was trying to help you. Some of us are a little Stern with our replies because we answer the same things soooo many times that we get tired of it but we still love the chameleons sooo much that we answer one more time. It's not enough to say oh gee...your chameleon isn't eating...just feed it a different insect and see if it eats that. We need information....so here goes...
Is there a substrate in the cage? What supplements do you use specifically and how often for each? What do you feed/gutload the insects with? What's the basking temperature? All of this helps us to figure out what's going on.
The fact that your chameleon dropped eggs after laying the majority of them is saying that something is "off" with her husbandry because she sounds like she is heading towards eggbinding or is already there. The vet visit is likely needed...so it's good that you're taking her. Xrays shoukd show if she has retained eggs.
As for getting her out if the cage...try to get her to walk into a piece of a branch you are holding to. To take her to the vet you can put her in a pet pal with a ventilated lid or a cardboard box with a branch or wadded up cloth or paper towels to stand on. If it's a branch make sure it won't flip over while she's standing on it. Good luck!
I'm sorry to hear your girl is not doing well . https://www.chameleonforums.com/threads/sadies-autopsy-results.114542/ . Not to scare you but you should take a look at this . It's one of @jannb girls and it seems to be more common . Vet visit would be good . Best of luck .