Ok let me clarify, out of the sake of the reptile I took it in. Not knowing anything about this when I got it was apart of the issue. I don't really yank it out, I'm swift to get in there then slowly work the finger biting kaiju onto my hand.
I think it's a marvelous creature and like it. It has its moments..
I use repti-cal when feeding, I usually find a grasshopper or two outside and throw it in there.
I take it outside every so often and let it hug a tree.
Name is Kaiju, can it hear it's name when calling? No. Lol
Just got a small male Fischer chameleon today. Not aggressive.
"I have to just yank it out of there because there is no nice way of it wanting to do anything"
Okay, I am confused, do you yank it out or slowly work it onto your hand?
Is this all you are feeding her? I would be pissy too if I was eating very little.
But, if you are feeding her worms why not make a food cup to mount on the side of the cage, you can probably make one for less than 10$ So that way when you give up on hand feeding, she will have a reliable food source not just if she wants it she will have to find it.
All chameleons are different just like any dog,cat,or person. Each with his or her own personality , some like to be handled while other dont like it at all.
But as far as wondering if she will ever come around, it all depends on how much you put into it. My veiled has his moments where he doesnt want to be bothered , but he knows me and my hand. If he spots me he will pace the branch closest to my bed until I open the door and he crawls right onto my hand. Did he do this at first? no, but with a little bit of hard work and patience, he and I have built a "bond" I cant promise you and say that kaiju will ever change but it if she does , it wont be over night. Patience , love, and proper care will go a long way.