my girlfriend from russia

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chequepoint said:
I'm going to give you some really important advice. The fact that you still want to meet her, even if she isn't who you've been talking to, is the reason that you live alone. Her emails revealed nothing of a personal nature, there was no depth to anything you posted. You are completely hung up on her looks. Get over it, and by it I mean your obsession with trying to find a super model. Try a site like eharmony.com that doesn't even show you the girls picture until a few steps into the process. When you find someone who can make you happy, looks will take a back seat.

If you want to meet girls like that look like that, it isn't hard. But its not the path to happiness.
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Fate, this is the best advice I've seen yet. As time goes on, looks will fade. Love, respect, mutual interests never will..... I bet if you found a girl into chams like you are, your "cyber fox" would become nothing but a dim memory.
 
I wanted to take a moment to say that if FateX is making this up and is yanking everyones chain. He is pure genius.

There is still the possibility he is a comedic genius , laughing at the fact so many are fascinated by this thread.

I can see it now : Him sitting at his computer ; HAHAHA Even Chris Anderson replied...

Either way , Please continue to share these little pieces of your live.

I vote we start a section dedicated to this stuff.

I find it fascinating that kids and yes a lot of people giving you advise are old enough to be your kid are giving advise to a 43 year old man.

There are some smart kids on here , I can give them credit for that.

Keep up the good work
 
Fate, you really need to separate the notion that those letters and the girl in those pictures have anything to do with each other.

Oh , and ... when you finally give up on this foolishness, can I have her email addy????
 
ChromaChameleons said:
Fate, you really need to separate the notion that those letters and the girl in those pictures have anything to do with each other.

Oh , and ... when you finally give up on this foolishness, can I have her email addy????
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You should post the email so we all can start new accounts and spam the hell out of it. :rolleyes:
 
chequepoint said:
I'm going to give you some really important advice. The fact that you still want to meet her, even if she isn't who you've been talking to, is the reason that you live alone. Her emails revealed nothing of a personal nature, there was no depth to anything you posted. You are completely hung up on her looks. Get over it, and by it I mean your obsession with trying to find a super model. Try a site like eharmony.com that doesn't even show you the girls picture until a few steps into the process. When you find someone who can make you happy, looks will take a back seat.

If you want to meet girls like that look like that, it isn't hard. But its not the path to happiness.
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i agree to most of that
 
Ryan Jarosek said:
I wanted to take a moment to say that if FateX is making this up and is yanking everyones chain. He is pure genius.

There is still the possibility he is a comedic genius , laughing at the fact so many are fascinated by this thread.

I can see it now : Him sitting at his computer ; HAHAHA Even Chris Anderson replied...

Either way , Please continue to share these little pieces of your live.

I vote we start a section dedicated to this stuff.

I find it fascinating that kids and yes a lot of people giving you advise are old enough to be your kid are giving advise to a 43 year old man.

There are some smart kids on here , I can give them credit for that.

Keep up the good work
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LOL she really has been emailing me.they /her been emailing emailing me.
i got no emails today.

i know their are many,many younger people here that have more experience then i do with relationships and social interaction.
i am usually mature always responsible.women i have been realizing for the past 5 years might be my weakness.since im sorta spilling my guts here i will tell about a few experiences and a few major failures.
about 6 yrs ago i met a older women who moved into the neighborhood,she started talking to me first then i talked to her.i decided to drop my standards.
she was very much overweight and her looks where nothing like a model.
we spent some time together a few nights a week.after about 3 weeks she stopped answering my phonecalls.i was close to being in love with her.
she crushed my heart and just about laughed about it.she had met someone from the internet and married them and i would see them together from time to time since we lived in the same neighborhood.i never understood what he had that i did not.that all happened around christmas too so she hurt my feelings.then there was last summer these 2 girls moved in next door to me and i really liked the one and when she found out she laughed.i was giving her movies n stuff trying to inpress her too but she was sitting out front the one night and laughed at me like i said kinda hurt my feelings.

moving forward to this summer.when i first moved out here i had what i beleive was the perfect opertunity to hook up with a super hot babe.
wow she was unbeleivable.she was at the checkout at the grocery store,wish i had a pic,she was wearing short ,tight light brown shorts,white high heels and soooo cute she was in her mid twenties id say maybe late twenties anyway there was only one other person between me and her in line and the women in front a me was complaining because the super cute girl was taking to much time.i told her ,very loud, that i could wait all day for her.
the cute hot girl looked at me then at my eyes we made eye contact.this cute girl was taking her time because she knew a girl who worked at this store,while she was talking to her and looking at me she said "do you want my number"?so it was like she was talking to both us.then she left i thought.
after i paid for my food i went out into the parking lot,it took me at least 10 minutes till ileft cause i remember using a cc to pay for my food.she was still out in the parkinglot in her car be herself.
and i failed horribly.i should have walked over and asked for her email or phone number ,i didnt.i was gonna go back in the store and ask her friend for her number and i never did.i hated myself.
before i moved out here i was hanging out with a old girlfriend like once a week for a few months 2 she was touching my arm,she called me at 3 in the morning i was asleep.then 3-4 weeks later she said "remember when i called you late that night "i said yeah then she said she had a fight with her boyfriend and wanted to hook up with me that night.about 4 weeks after she told me that i made my move sorta.this girl is hot also,blonde too and thin.
i told her i didnt want her coming around unless she was gonna be my girlfriend and she didnt say nothing.i called her once since i been out here so that was a waste.

since i been out here in ohio i been busy until recently i have some more free time.if someone wanted to kill me all they would have to do is send a sexy girl after me and id be gone.

i decided im not getting new boots im getting new running sneakers.
im also gonna try to look more clean cut more often ,thats gonna be tough.

keep in mind its not like i dont meet women,ive had some really beutiful women look me in the eyes and id look at them,we would have that moment then i never see them again ever.


the good news is that i met a women last month for like 5 minutes.we looked at each other directly in the eyes and locked.when i got home i thought about her seriously and i thought about myself.i decided i wanted to better myself because she so cute,the woman that looked at me before i met this girl was also extremly smoking,she was a little older and dressed really nice like she was a lawyer.

now im emailing this russian chick/them.i have been thinking of some pickup lines because i realized thats the key to this whole thing.
 
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You just have not met the exact right person. I think you are taking all the right steps. You have thought this through. Get yourself out there!
 
i am out there.i think within the next 12 months i will have a girlfriend.

i just ordered 2 pair of adult wild caught tokay geckos for a side project,i been thinking about getting them so today i bought them.they should be here friday.
 
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Chameleon Caretaker, if you check where this thread is from it is from the Lizard Lounge and it is ok for folks to talk about things other than chams. If you don't wish to read it then dont.
 
Hey Fate,
in my limited experience, usually love comes when you don't search for it frantically.
If you keep your cool and don't fuss over being lonely and desperate, you'll find out that suddenly all wonderful women become available.
A part of the charm comes from you being relax and being yourself.

My GF (soon to become my fiancee) always told me women hates to be around men who is needy, clingy, and desperate.

Keep your cool, man! :)
 
What Frans said I really believe in. Take care of yourself and a woman will come along. Concentrate on what you like to do and focus on being the best you, you can be. A side project perfect!. Cleaning yourself up perfect!.

My wife fell into my lap when the time was right. We share ALL the same interests and I think she is the hottest thing on earth.

I am rooting for you as a lot of people on here are. You are going to be fine.

Can I recommend one more thing? Go see a psychologist. I am not making a joke. I see one every now and then to get my head strait. Once can help you get ready to be in a relationship. After that the relationship will find you. It works.
 
i do see one every 3 months.most of the time i am relaxed its just when you get a email with pics of a model and you think shes interested in you,i just run with it.
 
I just sorta' scanned over this thread, but I wanted to reiterate some things even though they've already been said:

If you really want to find 'the one', don't go looking for her. When you're confident and comfortable with yourself, you could be out on an errand and meet her in the strangest place. It's just a waste of time to hunt fervishly for the 'hot' girls.

I'm not implying that the really beautiful girls won't like you, but when they know they're hot, and although beautiful to the eye, they can be superficial, shallow, and immature. Many aren't, but still, many are. Would you rather have a decent looking girl who liked you for you, or some shallow nitwit who took advantage of you for materialistic needs, like the girl that laughed at you? Just saying, I'd put personality before looks, and when someone has a beautiful personality, it makes the person more 'visually pleasing', if that makes sense.

...And don't worry about finding one in any hurry. Like I said, take your time. I work the midnight shift at a military base and sleep during most of the day, and I still manage to find people LOL; So you're gonna' be just fine. Take care. :eek:
 
dodolah said:
Hey Fate,
in my limited experience, usually love comes when you don't search for it frantically.
If you keep your cool and don't fuss over being lonely and desperate, you'll find out that suddenly all wonderful women become available.
A part of the charm comes from you being relax and being yourself.

My GF (soon to become my fiancee) always told me women hates to be around men who is needy, clingy, and desperate.

Keep your cool, man! :)
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I totally agree
 
the game continues i got a email today



>TRAVEL INFO : Elizaveta Onujanowa> --------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------> ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- > © Travel Agency Condor - Travel . > ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------> TRAVEL INFO : Elizaveta Onujanowa - private tour.(work visa)>Russian-English> variants.ENGLISH SPEAKING GUIDE > ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------> Travel dates for: Ms. Elizaveta Onujanowa> Please label the inside and outside of each piece of baggage to> be checked in with your name and where possible your address.> Suitable baggage labels and> stickers are available free of charge. In advance of your journey.> please note the current free baggage allowance included in your> ticket price. You can find this information in the internet or via> your Airline contact> person. In case you booked a special fare please note that it can> be subject to restrictions. Travel Abroad: When preparing to travel> abroad for less than 5 months,> it is important to ensure entry to another country . Depending on> the country to be visited and the student's nationality, it may be> necessary to apply for a> visitor visa.The student must have: a valid passport or travel document, valid >visa .> Furthermore, page 4 must be signed by the RO. No special> permission is needed, but it is important to have a valid> passport,valid visa and all travel documents. > Thank you for your booking and have a pleasant journey. Kind regards."Condor - Travel"> is a licensed and> officially registered travel agency.> Travel agency Condor - Travel.> > Our goal is to provide quality services for group and individual travelers.> -----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------> Please use our service .Managers: Ms.Alikina Nataliya. Ms.Svetlova Maria.> ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ >The nearest possible flight is - November 16, 2008.From Moscow>Sheremetyevo Inter Airport. >Price: foreign passport,visa,tax,consulate fee,ticket Eco.class.USD 1290.00+ > ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ >This reservation will be automatically cancelled if the order is not>purchased until November 15, 2008. > ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Hello my love,I have got all the info and resend to you,you see I am after visit to consulate and agency and I am so happy to say that we will meet in a few days!!!!I am really lucky girl to meet you.Honey the thing is that I booked nearest possibleflight .I need only your help. there is only a small problem but I am sure we will be able to solve.I wanted toask you to help me to pay for tickets but they tell thatI can't use your help or ask you about sending me tickets because I have permission to use the help of agency only because they do all travel things and it is theirbusiness to arrange all travel things for my jorney,it is the law.and it is not possible to get work visa without help of agency,too strong laws.I was sure that my mom will help me becasue she promised but now she sent telegramthat it is possible only in a few months or so because offamily problems.and she can't send transfer now.I was in the bank to try to ask them about loan but they tell I have to have something to stay themand I have nothing to stay because I have only a fewdress and things,some perfume and it is all I have,and small gift for you from russia with love.and I think it is not great problem for youto help me.I even think that maybe it will give you the pleasure to help me because you are my knight,rught? after all payments here and travel by plane I have about 300$ my own money andI need about 990$ from your side,because I have to pay for ticket and afew thigs yet,and I have to pay in advance about 1290$ and if the tickets will cost less i will get some money back. when we meetI will return this sum and some extra money because to send thransfer costs money too.I have to be sure that I will be able to book it or I will lose all the money I gave themin advance.I'm not going to ask one more time for yourhelp,you see I am in hard situation.I will be waiting for your answer .I know it sounds like I am pooroutsider but you see I have nottime or somebody to ask about help,you know my mom gave me all that we with mom could collect for my travel.I hate to ask but now I don't have any other choice.you saw all my body and I believe you I havedone almost all here and now I need some help from you,please help me to leave Moscow andit is all I ask now and you know I am full of the love to share with you. Kiss you, counting days and minutes before our meeting.you know it is only money ,and I think thatit is not too hard for you to help me ,you see I have such chance only once in my life.I know you are kind man and I do hope you will beable to help me.I promise I will return all the money .and I will earn money because I am ready to work as hard as possible!Million Kisses, Your poor Elizaveta you know my rent address here isRussia, Moscow,zip 117623,Polevaja street 30flat 20. Remember that my full name isElizaveta - (firstname)Onujanowa -(last name) . it is right writting in English, and you should put it onwestern union list and you can choice any bank in Moscow,they tell it is international service and I can get money in any bank ofMoscow. they tell I can get only Western Union or Moneygram transfer because I have not anybank accounts in Moscow and I have only passport and it isenough to get it! P.S. I am not sure I should tell this but I want to let you know that if you don't like me I will not bother you and it is only your choice to spend time with me Iknow you may be too busy,and in any case I will return money back .you know I will have rent room ,job and I want to say that you don't worry that I want to use you just for my goals.and Iam sure that when we meet we will not regret aboutit,promise,and I hate people who imagined so many silly rules and laws.and I have only small suitcase with me.and I dream about our firstmeeting,our first night and I have some sexy night dress with me! and I think that now everything depends on you my hope and I will check my mail all day and all nightbecause i can't sleep if I am not sure that everything is all right and you can help,please dear don'tleave me alone i have done so much and I am almost near you.and I can stay more than six months,I can stay longer it is possible if we fall in love and going to marry.But I think we need time to learn each other.and as soon as I got transfer ,they tell in the bank you should send me transfer number and I will be able to get transfer then,I will send exact schedule and number of the flight and terminal number and time of my arriving to your airport.I with the big hope shall wait your letter. Kissss Your Elizaveta > he airport your gonna arrive at is cleveland hopkins international> i will pick you up there.my cell is 6104518652 call me i need to hear your voice.> > Richard> _________________________________________________________________> Color coding for safety: Windows Live Hotmail alerts you to suspicious email
 
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