Hi welcome to the forums. They can have upwards of 80 eggs, but the average is around 40- 50. If she is eating and drinking after laying 33 eggs she might be alright, and done. However I would advise taking her to a good reptile vet and make sure.
Yah I would say that is fertilizer don't let him eat that. Put river stones over the top that are big enough that he can't eat them. You might want to replant your plants in a organic soil.
Yes they will lay eggs weather they mate or not. You are lucky she laid them without a laying ben, she could have very easily become egg bound. You might want to take a look at the care sheets we have on here, and see what else you missed.
They have a cheap one on Amazon I thought about buying as a back-up, but can't say how good it because I have never tried it. You could also get one from Mist King it's more expensive, but I know it works. Her is a link to the Amazon one...
WOW! JUST WOW! Joel did anyone tell you "you might have a problem", and an expensive one at that. Yep I think it may be time for an intervention. LOL
Seriously ever thought about starting a book?! You already have the pictures.
What do you have the eggs setting in it kind of looks like small pebbles. I have always used something like vermiculite because it will hold moisture which is necessary too keep the eggs from drying out. I found it best to keep enough moisture in the laying container to keep it around 70-80%...
Never herd of such a thing, but haven't really looked for it do to the fact I don't think the dosage could be controlled properly that way like it is with powders.
Not to get all religious on you but God, or nature if you prefer made things to work like wheels in a spoke. Everything depends on each other for their survival. When something is introduced in to that particular eco system that don't belong it either adds spokes, or takes them away. either one...
I personally think you are messing with her too much give her absolute privacy for at least 1 day see if she don't lay. If not then maybe a vet visit is in order, but leave her alone, and give her a chance just MHO. Good luck.
If the whole sleeping during the day thing doesn't stop real soon I would get a second opinion on that fecal. Coccidia is harder to find, and will destroy a chameleons appetite.
I have never bred panthers before so not an expert, but if I had to guess (and it is a guess mind you) I'm leaning male do to the thickness at the base of the tail. I'm sure other's will correct me if I'm wrong.