So this is where you have to put aside your human emotions. I know it is hard. Beman is on an even more reduced diet then yours. But I stick to it because if I add even one feeder to the 3 days he gets fed he starts gaining weight. I need him to stay a stable weight and or lose weight. So I deal with his eagerness to eat the 2-3 feeders he gets. I deal with him wanting and thinking he will get more food when I open the door. I suck it up because if I gave him what he wanted then he would become obese rapidly. And then he would live a very short unhealthy life.Thank you for adding to this thread! The reason why I have kept Carly on the every other day schedule was for these reasons
1. No increase in weight or size
2. No eggs laid or being in the process of egg-laying
I went to feed her today after 3-4 days of not feeding her, I understand they are gutz, but it truly looked like she was absolutely starving.
I will be sure to keep an eye on her weight and size, also the process of egg-laying. But for now, seeing the way she reacted after no food for days, was upsetting.
Yes, it is upsetting to see them acting as though they are starving but they are not like dogs or cats. They are not actively burning calories running around. They eat, bask, move around a bit, drink, bask, go to sleep, and repeat. They really are not starving.
And what we are saying is to put her on a 3 days a week schedule. This is not going 3-4 days without feeding. This is feeding Monday, Wednesday, and Friday. Your skipping a day between feedings during the week and only skipping 2 days on the weekend.